Find absolute power in Commitment and reach your goals

You need commitment! #simple

Mention commitment in a sentence, and you’ll have most guys and girls thinking of relationships and marriages.

But that’s not what we are going to do today. We are going to discuss how commitment can change your life.

I chose ‘commitment,’ and it turned my life around. I committed to a noble cause, the cause of removing all disempowering and toxic habits from my life.

It hasn’t been that long, but I noticed how much cutting myself from these habits has empowered me.

In the beginning, these commitments seemed hard. So naturally, I looked for support and joined some online groups. I found that we were all in this together and I had come a long way to give up now.

Don’t break

I have often read people saying that if you fail once, don’t stop, keep trying.

But think of this way: What if I follow a no-carb diet but slip and eat a cheeseburger on the 11th day? A guilty me would go back to the no-carb diet post the slip but what if I slip again?

You can’t take a break from your commitments on weekends or every 10 days. There are no vacations from commitments.

Slipping, following the routine, slipping again, back to the routine; no that doesn’t work. What do you think this vicious and perpetual cycle of slipping and routine will do?

Keep you from reaching your goals.

You or I don’t have to be so hard on ourselves because we slipped. But we can’t move over and over again.

Nor should we accept these little failures and motivate ourselves to move past them. No, don’t hold on to them but commit to never fail like that.

The key is to accept commitment wholeheartedly and never cave into the temptations.

Say no to almost  

No one likes scoring the second position. So, why accept the almost everything.

Would you eat an almost cooked steak? Then why accept almost successful?

Commitment is scary. But the lack of commitment is what’s keeping you and me from getting where we want to be.

You must be strong, and you will find absolute power in commitment.

 

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Here’s how to Pull Through in Tough Situations

We all need a reminder on what to do when tough situations arise..

 

In life, there is going to be tough times. Whether you are currently going through something right now or are trying to prepare if something was to happen, shit will happen. However, there is something we can control – how we react. Ultimately, the key is often not to let the tough times get the better of you. Of course, the key question is – how do we do that?

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Accept that people make mistakes – When you think of tricky times you have been through before, it is likely to bring back anxiety and sadness. With this in mind, it means that you’re still attached and affected by some ideal. At first, it can be hard to notice this, but you have to if you want to move forward. If a family member hurt you, this still hurts because they aren’t supposed to do this (in theory). To progress, you have to notice this and then let it go. How? By realizing that every human makes mistakes and that, even though it hurts, it has to be accepted.

 

Be overly Grateful – Secondly, you must always find something to be grateful for in every single moment. When life kicks us to the ground, it can be hard to be grateful, but this is a powerful technique if you can master it correctly. How? Above all else, you have to live in the present because this is the only way you can recognize what’s in front of you. As soon as you do this, you can accept reality and make the best of a bad situation.

 

Judge much less – If you continue to judge something or someone, there is no way you will ever move on. If you still hold onto blame (even towards yourself), you have to let go of this judgment otherwise, the pain will stay with you for years to come. Even if you aren’t pleased with what happened, you can still relieve yourself of the burden by letting go of judgments. If you manage to do this, it doesn’t mean that you support what happened but rather you want to release the negativity and accept it to then move on.

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Attend to others – Finally, place your focus on someone else rather than thinking you are the center of the universe. By doing this, you are getting out of the ‘how does it affect me’ mindset. Once we have someone to focus on, we stop feeling sorry for ourselves and realize that we were over-worrying about something that isn’t important. Again, this will lead to a removal of negativity and will allow you to accept and move on.

 

As mentioned at the beginning, it is all about how we react and how we pick ourselves up from the ground. By following these simple tips, you will be putting yourself in the best possible position for happiness.